Obituaries Page
On this page we will show details of pupils and teachers who attended St Joseph's in some capacity or other who have passed away.
Where possible I will try and produce photographs from the early days of the deceased.
There are more to be added. If you have details of anyone else, please contact me and if possible, let me have any photographs that you may have.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN COPS GO TO
HEAVEN?
THE FINAL INSPECTION
The policeman stood and faced his God,
Which must always come to pass.
He hoped his boots were shining
just as brightly as his brass.
'Step forward now, policeman,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To my church have you been true?'
The policeman squared his shoulders
and said 'No Lord, I guess I ain't,
because those who carry badges
can't always be a saint.'
'I've had to work most Sundays.
and at times my talk was rough....
and sometimes I've been violent
because the streets are awfully tough.'
'But I never took a penny,
that wasn't mine to keep....
though I worked a lot of overtime
when the bills got a little steep,'
'and I never passed a cry for help,
though at times I shook with fear,
and sometimes, please forgive me
but I wept unmanly tears.'
'I know I don't deserve a place
among the people here.
They never wanted me around
except to calm their fear.'
'If you have a place for me, Dear Lord,
it needn't be so grand.
I've never had or expected much
and if you don't I'll understand.'
There was silence all around the throne,
where saints had often trod,
as the policeman waited quietly
for the judgement of his God.
'Step forward now policeman,
for you've borne your burdens well.
Come, walk a beat on Heaven's Street.
You've done your time in hell.'
If I be the first of us to pass away.
Let grief not blacken long your sky.
Be bold yet modest in your grieving.
There is change but not a leaving.
For just as death is part of life,
The dead live on forever in the living.
For all the gathered riches of our journey,
The moment shared, the mysteries explored,
The steady layer of intimacy stored,
The things that made us laugh or weep or sing,
The joy of sunlit snow or first unfurling of the spring,
The wordless language of look and touch,
The knowing,
Each giving and each taking,
These are not flowers that fade,
Nor trees that fall and crumble,
Nor are they stone
For even stone cannot the wind and rain withstand
And mighty mountain peaks in time reduce to sand.
What we were, we are.
What we had, we have.
A conjoined past imperishably present.
So when you walk the woods where once we walked together
And scan in vain the dappled bank beside you for my shadow,
Or pause where we always did upon the hill to gaze across the land,
And spotting something, reach by habit for my hand,
And finding none, feel sorrow start to steal upon you,
Be still.
Close your eyes.
Breathe.
Listen for my footfall in your heart.
I am not gone but merely walk within you.
Anon
If Tomorrow Starts Without Me.
If tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me,
I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today, While thinking of the many things, we didn’t get to say.
I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, and each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand, And said my place was ready, In heaven far above, And that I’d have to leave behind All those I dearly love.
As I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye, for all my life I had always thought, I didn’t want to die. I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do, it seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, the thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, just even for a while, I’d say good-bye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized, that this could never be, for emptiness and memories, would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me, From His great golden throne. He said, "This is eternity, and all I've promised you." Today your life on earth is past, but here life starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last, And since each day's the same, there's no longing for the past.
You have been so faithful, so trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven and now at last you're free. So won’t you come and take my hand and share your life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I’m right there, in your heart.
Not, how did he die, but how did he live ?
Not what did he gain but what did he give ?
These are the units to measure the worth,
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
Not, what was his church, nor what was his
creed?
But had he befriended those really in need?
Was he ever ready with a word of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not what did the sketch in the newspaper say,
But how many were sorry, when he passed
away.
Anon.
A little poem for you
If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you
and share with you its beauty
On the days you're feeling blue.
If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own;
A place to find serenity,
A place to be alone.
If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea,
But all these things I'm finding
are impossible for me.
I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend who's always there.